Hi Everyone,
I would like to thank you Adriana for creating the System of Mind Control. It is was the ultimate reframe that I needed after having the Marketing event we had on Wednesday night. Everything seemed to go wrong! All my projections where right in my face. All of the people that had characteristics of my worst fears, were in the audience of 26 people. It was kind of like TT where you create the worst case scenario. Well we almost experienced it. Our opening was terrible and nothing was flowing. Because we where off rhythm, I rushed through content. BIG mistake! Then I froze up and so did Brandon. It is so crazy because we know the content but It just wouldn’t come out right. The group was low on energy and we where having trouble keeping rapport. Because we didn’t open up well, it felt like half way through ½ of them wanted to leave. One of the guys kept rolling his eyes then finally left at the end. It was like we where in a bus barreling down a hill and unable to stop it. Finally we said Fxxx it and broke out to do a value elicitation exercise that kind of pulled it around and got the group engaged. At the end I was so out of it I forgot to do the pitch thank goodness Brandon pulled up the slide of our upcoming practitioner training finished out all in all with good questions and a lot curiosity. When we where done I was super upset. I have such high expectations for what I know what we can do based upon our past performances and how much we can improve each time. I could barely sleep Wednesday night because I kept going over what we COULD have done differently and what we SHOULD have done. The next day we had another networking event and I didn’t want to go I felt like a failure everything I know logically there is no failure only feedback trying to get the learning so I could let it go and move on. I was practicing my pitch and it wasn’t coming out right. Then I put the recording on for Mind Control the System and I realized again that none of this matters It is all just an illusion lol. This is part of being successful it’s to fail over and over and get feedback and incorporate. I could hear Tad in the back of my mind telling me about Babe Ruth and how many times he stuck out as the greatest baseball player! (Lol) Not everyone is a client and we don’t want everyone for a client, like TJ & AJ have been telling us for years. I reconnected with my purpose and mission of “transforming the planet” and waking people up to help them evolve and grow. Knowing as we expand out of our comfort zones, clients will do things that press our buttons so we can learn then evolve. I know this isn’t the first failure and certainly not my last learning but it’s what it takes to grow and this mission is not going to be easy and it is worth it. So we went to 2 networking events on Thursday and I knocked it out of the park with my pitches and got some really good leads. Earlier today I got a text from one of the participants from the event the night before that they really had a break-though and want to take it to the next level and come to our Pract. Training. We have a discovery call scheduled for next week. So apparently the Meetup on Wed. night wasn’t a complete failure it just felt that way.
xo Deb:)