Hey Cristina, I will let you and Deb continue the conversation about FB. I agree with what you say. FB requires targeted viewership, and eventually it all boils down to personal conversations, which is what we keep telling everyone in our trainings. There is no replacement for one-on-one conversation with people. It takes less time and effort live on the phone so eventually you want to connect with them and talk to them directly.
About people hitting on you during trainings, change the energy around you. People will always try if they feel there is an opening. Meaning you may be just friendly but that can be interpreted as something else if the intention of the person is different. So change the energy around you, and within you, and out put only the intention of professional relationship, “I am the trainer and you are the student and we are here to do a job” type of energy, and that will stop.
Now, from APEP point of view, think of what is it inside you that makes that possible. Do not take this the wrong way, it may be simply because you want their attention in training, but get a different “attention”. So chunk down (E.g. if I want my participants attention is only professional) and check your projections. Because perception is projection. As an APEP graduate you get into the heavier stuff compared to non APEP people (most unconsciousness projections come out for change and resolution – meaning they want to become conscious). But this provides your greatest awakening and growth of consciousness.
So do some introspection work and figure out for what purpose would you create such situations. The moment you realize that and bring it to consciousness, the projection will change. And as you remember from APEP it may not be a on-on -one relationship. It may play there (7th house) because of something else in the 7th house, or anywhere else as a matter of fact. So figure out what it is and then ask yourself where are you doing the same or similar.
So do the APEP problem solving technique spending really a good amount of time to figure out what is this for YOU and after you figure that out, then go through the questions about boundaries which you wrote down in APEP 1. If you are stuck, call me. This is more an APEP question than anything else, although for a training situation, do what I said above, professional relationship and cut that garbage out immediately.
I hope this helps.