I believe i already answered this maybe in a roundabout way.
How can I change your life and charge you big bucks if I can’t even get my own schtuff together? I know this is a bit raw but it’s bubbling up and
has to be dealt with if I’m going to get anywhere.
You clean up your SCHTUFF (that’s actually very funny) WHILE you help change other people’s lives. not sequential but simultaneous.