Hi Adriana
This post is so helpful for me. Especially because I have been called, at times, a mismatcher. After reading the post, my question to myself now is, “How helpful is mismatching? In which situations is it a must? In what other situations am I creating more work/resistance for no reason by mismatching?” I generally mismatch until I trust that source/person/entity. Then I completely subscribe to everything they say. This black and white approach isn’t helping me either. Instead, 2019 will be a year of ‘discernment’. Accepting different views, then checking in with myself and trusting myself to make the best decision with the information based upon my goals and values. No need for anger, criticism, over analysing…discernment!
